May 9, 2008

How to know what rope to get ?

I am in trouble again. I have been told “we” are going to experiment with Japanese rope bondage. Well first of all I was told not to be stupid for asking if she meant Shibari and secondly it was made plain that I better get the right sort of rope for her. Well I started searching and found my new friends and saviours at Bound to Please have added a page explaining which is the best rope for Shibari. I was dreading getting scratched all over with hemp rope and she would probably say it smelled and spank me for getting the wrong rope. I think I am gong to try their linen rope.So all I have to do now is wait and hope the crotch rope does not get pulled to tight.

April 14, 2008
Roger the bondage bear

Roger the bondage bear

April 2, 2008

New bondage rope blog

Hi my friends at Bound to Please (well they are my friends since I started using their ropes) have just started a new blog about the trials and tribulations and amusing moments of being a professional rope seller. I am going to subscribe to it I think its going to be very amusing

If you want to read their bondage rope blog you know what to do.

March 24, 2008

Japanese rope bondage - lets talk about safety

Well the girlfriend has decided she wants to do artistic rope bondage and turn me into human macrame. She told me not to be stupid and give it its proper name of Shibari but she apologized when she realised she had misheard me and thought I had said human macaroni. Even I am not that stupid but I do know enough to be concerned about safety when indulging in Japanese rope bondage or any other sort of bondage for that matter.

First of all when enjoying this sort of play “no” often means “yes” so choose a word that is not going to crop up naturally So you can really let your partner know things are going further than you would like, choose something like red or macaroni and then they will know when you really mean “no” or “nomore”

Secondly dont cut off circulation by tieing things too tight, several wraps of the rope around any part of the body you are tieing up and the thinner the bondage rope you are useing the more wraps you should make it. If you are a beginner it does not hurt to use an extra thick rope like the thick cotton bound to please sell.

If you loose sensation in anywhere that is tied up or it goes cold or a dark colour you know you are cutting off the circulation and it should be released straight away and rubbed (could be fun) to start the circulation again.

Finally a pair of scissors, sharp but with blunt or rounded points should be kept ready. The best ones are the bent ones they use in hospitals for cutting bandages.

Play safe and your rope bondage will be bound to please you and your partner

February 5, 2008

How to do it DVD from Bound to Please

Bound to Please have posted a couple of clips on YouTube from the how to bondage rope dvd they sell, Its really good for basic instruction. If you want to see the second clip click n the arrow at the side of the screen. They have had over sixteen thousand viewings in the first four days between the two clips. I am obviously not the only one who likes bondage rope
DropJack!

Bound to Please have posted a second bondage rope video clip and here it is for you to watch just click the arrow at the side of the screen

if you’re not enjoying it; it’s not tight enough
 DS
January 31, 2008

Bondage rope - improve your sex life

You want to know how I got started with bondage rope? Well it wasn’t my idea the girlfriend first brought it up and said we should try it. We’ll I wouldn’t say I liked the idea I was absolutely spellbound at the thought of it.
I had visions of black leather and manacles everywhere and then it dawned on me all the buckles and stiff leather straps might be uncomfortable and turn her off from the idea before we really got started. Whats even worse it was going to cost me a fortune for a pile of gear that might only get used once.
So I started thinking with my head instead of the part of my anatomy I usually use and it dawned on me some soft cotton bondage rope might be a better proposition, especially if I got it in an attractive colour. Certainly less of a hassle than all those buckles straps and locks. And what if I started fumbling with them in the dim light might just put her off before we even started
Eventually I found a great place to buy bondage rope called Bound to Please and the nice lady who runs it gave me some sensible advice. She said start with some ten millimetre cotton bondage rope because it doesn’t cut into the flesh so much and its more comfortable when you are inexperienced. Also its easy both to knot and undo in dim light
When I started to find out how to do it the first thing I found was shibari Japanese bondage and boy was it complicated. I thought I was going to need a black belt in origami before I could have some fun in the bedroom but the people at bound to please said I didn’t need to learn all that just stick to something basic and enjoy it.
So the big night came the girlfriend was there I had the rope, I had the candles, I had the mood music and I had the shock of my life. She walked into the bedroom and told me to lie on the bed face down Then it dawned on me what here idea of bedroom bondage was – she wanted to have her wicked way with me.
Well that was about a year ago and now I can’t get enough of being tied up with bondage rope although we switch around sometimes and she lets me tie her up.
Next time we will talk about the simple mechanics of using bondage rope with safety

January 11, 2008
thin white bondage rope suitable for shibari japanese rope bondage from bound to please

thin white bondage rope suitable for shibari japanese rope bondage from bound to please