Bondage rope - improve your sex life
You want to know how I got started with bondage rope? Well it wasn’t my idea the girlfriend first brought it up and said we should try it. We’ll I wouldn’t say I liked the idea I was absolutely spellbound at the thought of it.
I had visions of black leather and manacles everywhere and then it dawned on me all the buckles and stiff leather straps might be uncomfortable and turn her off from the idea before we really got started. Whats even worse it was going to cost me a fortune for a pile of gear that might only get used once.
So I started thinking with my head instead of the part of my anatomy I usually use and it dawned on me some soft cotton bondage rope might be a better proposition, especially if I got it in an attractive colour. Certainly less of a hassle than all those buckles straps and locks. And what if I started fumbling with them in the dim light might just put her off before we even started
Eventually I found a great place to buy bondage rope called Bound to Please and the nice lady who runs it gave me some sensible advice. She said start with some ten millimetre cotton bondage rope because it doesn’t cut into the flesh so much and its more comfortable when you are inexperienced. Also its easy both to knot and undo in dim light
When I started to find out how to do it the first thing I found was shibari Japanese bondage and boy was it complicated. I thought I was going to need a black belt in origami before I could have some fun in the bedroom but the people at bound to please said I didn’t need to learn all that just stick to something basic and enjoy it.
So the big night came the girlfriend was there I had the rope, I had the candles, I had the mood music and I had the shock of my life. She walked into the bedroom and told me to lie on the bed face down Then it dawned on me what here idea of bedroom bondage was – she wanted to have her wicked way with me.
Well that was about a year ago and now I can’t get enough of being tied up with bondage rope although we switch around sometimes and she lets me tie her up.
Next time we will talk about the simple mechanics of using bondage rope with safety
